Life After Narcissism

Why Narcissists Are Attracted To Successful Women

Sharlene Lee Episode 24

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In this eye-opening episode of The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Blueprint, we explore the counterintuitive truth about why narcissists specifically target strong-willed, empathetic, and successful women. Contrary to what many believe, narcissists don't randomly select their partners—they strategically pursue those whose positive qualities can enhance their own social status, feed their need for validation, and present a challenge they can "conquer." We dive deep into how narcissists are attracted to empathy, success, confidence, and strong-willed personalities, viewing these admirable traits as resources they can exploit to boost their fragile egos.

If you've survived narcissistic abuse and wondered "why me?", this episode offers validating insights that will transform your understanding of what happened. You'll discover that you weren't targeted because of weakness or flaws, but because of your strengths and qualities that the narcissist lacked and envied. Most importantly, you'll learn practical strategies for protection moving forward, including building self-awareness, setting clear boundaries, seeking support, practicing self-care, and limiting engagement with narcissists. Remember, your healing journey starts with understanding that there was never anything wrong with you—the narcissist simply recognized your brilliance and chose to exploit it.

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The content shared in this episode is intended for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional mental health care, diagnosis, or advice. Every situation is unique, so listeners are encouraged to consult a qualified mental health provider for personalized support or any medical concerns.

If you ever find yourself in an unsafe or dangerous situation, please prioritize your safety by seeking immediate help from trusted professionals or local authorities. You can reach the National Domestic Violence Hotline for confidential assistance 24/7 by calling 1-800-799-SAFE (7233), texting “START” to 88788, or visiting thehotline.org. Your well-being matters, and there is no shame in reaching out for support.




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